Much like planning a wedding, creating your speech requires a road map – an invisible guide that frames the story you're about to tell. The secret sauce of a successful wedding speech is not only genuine emotion and articulate wordplay, but also relies heavily on its structure. Share your thoughts on the bride and why you think she is a good match for your brother. 5. Share your wishes: Offer your congratulations to the newlyweds. Share your hopes and wishes for their future together. 6. Closing: Thank the audience for listening. Offer a wedding toast to the newlyweds.